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2021 goodbye to a dark and sad year with one bright exception

2021 was hardly started before the first disaster struck. One of my children needed medical help and in the process I got a parking fine which made a huge negative economical impact on our economy. Parking fines in Denmark is not a slap of 50 euros. No. Some years ago the parliament allowed people to complain and because the parking firms then risked losing most of the cases, the parliament allowed them to increase the fines. 106 euro it became. There has not been a week where we as family has not addressed this loss. Like many Danes I pay half my income in taxes and a train ticket to work is 8 euros each way which makes it difficult to make it a profit to work unless you cut down on unnecessary costs like good of new dates and dentist. We always look in the “Too good to go” department in the supermarkets, so we can avoid going to bed hungry.

2021 was really the year where I realized that I have made poor choices when I was young. After the gymnasium I got a position in a shop and spent the days working for 8 hours, using 2 hours in transport and the went to school one or two times per week in the evening. The result was the title Merconom but it was so much waste of my time because positions today in the field where I work requires a bachelor degree.

The problem back then was that the student counselors recommended getting a trade – not leaving your town in the countryside of Denmark and move to Copenhagen in order to attend a university. That was only something children of rich people did and I was born into a family in the middle class. Back then University was something for the city-people alone, not something for us living outside the 4 big cities.

I pay the price for that today. As many Danes aged above 50 everything is a question to be allowed to serve in our jobs until retirement. We want to avoid getting caught up in the job training mill where a case worker and an employer decide where you can work for your unemployment benefit not earning the right to vacation and other things which normally is a part of a normal paid job. It is a question of keeping your head down and let the young sales people and those with the university degrees run the show.

The parking ticket was only a start. Illness, homelessness combined illness at one of the children with brought us together living 4 people for one persons income together with a bit of aid from time to time. Late in the year a place in group home was granted for my child. Not a permanent place but it bring in more money. We had to second mortgage our house so we now owe the bank more than we bought it for more than 20 years ago. Strangely enough the rent is lower and we can sell the house for more than we borrowed from the bank but the clock is ticking. We need to move within the next 10 years and find a place in there to spent the few years left in our lives.

One of our cats was hit with severe illness. That was 2.400 euros.

There was problems with electricity and plumbing. The house we live in was built in 1968. We only later learning that the company which built the house went bankrupt and as result solutions in the house was made of poor quality. The house is old and tired. I am old and tired. We must depart so younger residents with the strength of youths and hopefully people around them with craftsmanship skills can take over. A new roof is needed within the next 10 years. That is the reason we have to leave as the Covid-19 pandemic has made such a work impossible to do due to lack of materials and manpower in the businesses which could do it.

On the top of it there was the pandemic with its lockdowns. It has not been a fun year for many people who was sent home. The schools only taught using online services and lessons were not taught as they should. One of my children left the university last year and while we had success of seeing the second of my children to become student which was the single joy we had this year. On the top of it was the first child who actually was able to celebrate it.

My oldest child was sick and as result prevented from celebrating with the other students. When I was young I did not attend the graduation party either for reason stated below so I did not consider it a loss.

Back in 1986 I had two reasons not to attend the graduation party. First of most I was working. The entire income of our family was based on working together running a gas station. Helping with providing for the family was more important for me that a day of celebration. I had passed my exam. It was reward enough in itself. It was not like the entire family would have joined in the celebration anyway. They were at work too.

But there was also another story to it. During my time in the gymnasium I was a senior member of the student council. Normally the chairman of the student council would be the valedictorian but at the time there were a conflict between the members of the student council. The student body of the school consisted of students from villages around the city I lived in and students from the town. The village fraction wanted to insult the town fraction by luring a student with working class background to do the valedictorian speech where the chairman was from the old more wealthy class if this person was from the city fraction. They targeted me. I would not disrupt the fine order in the city. There is a danish thing like the law of Jante which maintain the order in Denmark. So by staying away I foiled their plan and the order in the town was maintained.

Did I feel like I missed something out. No. Because the reward of serving ones family and preserve the order in the society was more important.

Back to the present year, I can say from the whole of my heart that I now am the proud father of two students. The pandemic during the summer was not severe so we even was allowed to host a party for the entire class. Never before and never in the future will I experience 40 people party all night in this house. It was the one bright part of the year.

Later we experience a setback just before Christmas. One of my children needed to pass an exam in order to be admitted to the University. The gymnasium was a small one where some courses were not offered in combinations with others. The exam which took place in December turned out to be a stop-exam. In Denmark we have some parts of the education where there seems to be political control of how many who can graduate based on the need of the firms in the business. In the old days audit firms sometime made the exam so difficult so there was a zero graduation rate. After all it was their future competitors they using this method prevented from being competitors. We do not know the result but it is too exciting. If the exam is not passed, 6 additional months is needed before an application to university can be sent.

Also the child was called to a job interview which went well. An invitation to a second interview was received but then it was announced that the manager who had made the first interview was fired and then of course the second interview did not went that good and the job opportunity was lost.

The prime minister used her speech to open for the possibility to invite more people to Denmark to pressure the salaries a bit down so now will a job not only be difficult to find for my child but the payment will be less.

No 2021 was a difficult year for us. Now where I write this entry I got to think about the parking fine and I became in a bad mood as result.

Anyhow. You might had seen a better version of 2021 than the one we got so I will wish you all a happy new year. We for sure could use a better year.

Happy New Year!

Min “nye” løbekarriere

Næste år runder jeg et skarpt hjørne. Det slutter med at være fyrre, fed og færdig. Hvad der kommer istedet vides ikke. I 2012 mente min læge at jeg skulle gøre noget med min vægt. Det har jeg så gjort. Min søn – Christian – har meldt sig på banen med hensyn til at gennemføre en jernmand som jeg gennemførte tilbage i 1991.

Så nu løber vi sammen. Da han ikke er voksen endnu handler det primært om at lære teknikken i de 3 sportsgrene som Triathlon beslår af. Ja, jeg er så gammel at jeg staver Triathlon med th. I dag prøver man at kalde det Triatlon.

Der er sket meget i sporten siden 1994 hvor jeg forlod sporten da arbejdet og familien tog over. Vi har kørt det første stævne og det var en 5 procents konkurrence – Egedal Familie Triathlon.

Men da der ikke er så mange stævner med 5 procent på programmet arbejder vi nu på at gøre os klar til at deltage i 10 procent konkurrencer. Vi skal kunne svømme 400 meter, cykle 18 kilometer og løbe 4 kilometer.

For at blive god til det, deltager vi i øjeblikket i nogle 5 kilometer løb. I 2015 er det blevet til motorvejsløbet og Egedal Centerløb, hvor nedenstående billeder stammer fra.

Christian kommer i mål. Tak til Søam og fotograf Lars Elgaard Larsen Den gamle kommer i mål. Tak til Søam og fotograf Lars Elgaard Larsen
Christian kommer i mål. Tak til Søam og fotograf Lars Elgaard Larsen Den gamle kommer i mål. Tak til Søam og fotograf Lars Elgaard Larsen

Målet er at forbedre vores tider som i øjeblikket er omkring 28-29 minutter for 5 kilometer til 25 minutter. Det kræver interval træning som vi er igang med at planlægge. Egedal Centerløb 2015 var et foreløbig højdepunkt for i år hvor vi fulgte strategien med at starte bagerst i feltet for senere at arbejde os op igennem feltet. Den første kilometer var en slags opvarmning hvor vi gik efter en kilometer-tid på cirka 6 minutter. Derefter forøgede vi hastigheden, så vi sluttede med at løbe den sidste kilometer med en kilometer-tid på 5,29.

Nu ser vi os så efter næste stævne. Ruten skal passe til vores løbestil og byde på forholdsvis brede stier på den første del af strækningen så vi ikke bliver fanget i en trafikprop af løbere når vi efter den første opvarmningskilometer slår over i det tempo vi går efter at løbe resten af løbet i.

Jeg har løbet Marathon løb, gennemført Jermand på både halv og hel distance. Jeg har haft min tid og mit mål er ikke at løbe flere af de lange løb. Men Christians tid kommer og jeg håber at kunne guide ham et godt stykke af vejen så han ikke behøver at begå nogle af de fejltagelser jeg begik på grund af at erfaringen ikke var tilstede i Triathlon sportens barndom. Det bliver en spændende tid for os begge.